The precise explanations of the Chanmyay method loop in my mind, making me question every movement and sensation as I struggle to stay present. It’s 2:04 a.m. and the floor feels colder than it should. A blanket is draped over my shoulders—not because the room is freezing, but to buffer against that specific, bone-deep stillness of the night. My neck is tight; I move it, hear a small crack, and then immediately feel a surge of doubt about the "correctness" of that movement. I find the mental judgment far more taxing than the actual stiffness.
The looping Echo of "Simple" Instructions
The technical details of the Chanmyay method repeat in my head like fragmented directions. The commands are simple: observe, know, stay clear, stay constant. Simple words that somehow feel complicated the moment I try to apply them without a teacher sitting three meters away. Alone like this, the explanations don’t sound firm anymore. They blur. They echo. And my mind fills in the gaps with doubt.
I focus on the breathing, but it seems to react to being watched, becoming shallow and forced. I feel a constriction in my chest and apply a label—"tightness"—only to immediately doubt the timing and quality of that noting. I am caught in a familiar loop of self-audit, driven by the memory of how exact the noting is meant to be. Without external guidance, the search for "correct" mindfulness feels like a test I am constantly failing.
Knowledge Evaporates When the Body Speaks
There’s a dull ache in my left thigh. Not intense. Just persistent. I stay with it. Or I try to. I find myself thinking about meditation concepts rather than actually meditating, repeating phrases about "no stories" while telling myself a story. I laugh quietly because even that laughter turns into something to watch. I try to categorize the laugh—is it neutral or pleasant?—but it's gone before the mind can file it away.
I spent some time earlier reviewing my notes on the practice, which gave me a false sense of mastery. Sitting now, that confidence is gone. Knowledge evaporates fast when the body starts complaining. My aching joints drown out the scriptures. I crave proof that this discomfort is "progress," but I am left with only the ache.
The Heavy Refusal to Comfort
I catch my shoulders tensing toward my ears; I release them, only for the tension to return moments later. The breath is uneven, and I find myself becoming frustrated. I observe the frustration, then observe the observer. Then I get tired of recognizing anything at all. In these moments, the Chanmyay instructions feel like a burden. They offer no consolation. There is no "it's okay" in this tradition. There is only the instruction to see what is true, over and over.
There’s a mosquito whining somewhere near my ear. I wait. I don’t move. I wait a little longer than usual. Then I swat. I feel a rapid sequence of irritation, relief, and regret, but the experience moves faster than my ability to note it. I recognize my own lack of speed, a thought that arrives without any emotional weight.
Experience Isn't Neat
The theory of Satipatthana is orderly—divided into four distinct areas of focus. Direct experience is a tangle where the boundaries are blurred. Physical pain is interwoven with frustration, and my thoughts are physically manifest as muscle tightness. I make an effort to stop the internal play-by-play, but my ego continues its commentary regardless.
Against my better judgment, I look at the clock. Eight minutes have passed. Time is indifferent to my struggle. The sensation in my leg changes its character. I am annoyed that the pain won't stay still. I wanted it to be a reliable target for my mindfulness. Instead, it remains fluid, entirely unconcerned with my spiritual labels.
The technical thoughts eventually subside, driven out by the sheer intensity of the somatic data. Warmth, compression, and prickling sensations fill my awareness. I anchor myself in the most prominent feeling. Then I drift. Then I come back. No clarity. No summary.
I don't have a better "theory" of meditation than when I check here started. I am simply present in the gap between the words of the teachers and the reality of my breath. I am staying with this disorganized moment, allowing the chaos to exist, because it is the only truth I have.